Dating - The Female Perspective
A Woman's Perspective
There is an unspoken understanding that if you are looking for a special person in your life there must be a reciprocal relationships contract otherwise it isn't a relationship that can continue past a few sexual encounters or an agreed casual arrangement.
With so many men now looking on the internet for a companion they have stumbled across one of the largest pick-up zones anywhere on the planet. Men are able to find women who are happy to enjoy just a casual meeting for sex. In the online dating scene more men tend to post profiles professing to be looking for that special someone albeit that is not necessarily the case. With all this free sex available women who are more interested in pursuing a relationship based on communication and respect rather than a roll in the hay are out of luck.
Historically men in their late 40's to 50's are comfortable in their lives and typically don't want that to change unless something spectacular comes around. They claim to want a full time relationship but if it clutters up their existence they aren't too keen on it. They would prefer to date casually but how long can one date casually? Eventually they will end up sad old lonely men sleeping in a cold bed.
Online dating requires a change in the way it is evolving, rather than becoming a hunting ground for Horney men and women it should blossom into a more honest medium where those who are looking to settle down won't have to worry about the insincerity of those who aren't interested in anything but casual sex. Guys and Gals, be upfront from the beginning, if you don't want anything more than a fling let it be known straight up. Many people have been emotionally hurt by setting expectations that were never a possibility in the first place.