Are You A Casanova
Not all guys have a magical wand when it comes to picking up women, some actually have two left feet and figure the cornier the pickup line the better chance they have of leaving a place with a chic on their arm.
It's not the myth of being better looking, rich or smart - it comes down to common sense and how to get off on the right foot not wrong when it comes to women. Females tend to trust their instincts, and if their first impressions fail you then you have a lot of making up to do to get back on track with her.
Some characteristics that a guy can build on are gimmee's but by following some of the outlines below might help you become more like a magnet as apposed to a red flag.
Some men are just better at picking women up than others, but that does not mean that you can't learn. Try some of these:
1. Swooping in
You have looked across the room, seen the woman of your dreams and you want to see what her reaction is to your stare. Look for her eye contact, if she looks away then try again, if she smiles at you then go for a chance to talk to her but if she looks away and doesn't look your way again, take it as a hint. Look and read her body language if it is at all present, if she has the body language and the eyes along with a smile of "come hither" than you have a good shot at stepping into her zone and being welcomed. Don't try and say or do what is out of your comfort zone, being natural and don't try and come up with stupid clichés that will make her run. The more natural and original a man can be the more a woman appreciates it.
Women for the most part do not like to be sought, skulked or skunked meaning if you have just been told to back off, do it.
Pay attention to her attitude towards you, if you are looking for her interest in you as well you are off to a better start then some that refuse to take no for an answer.
2. Hit on her not her friends
Nothing shows your desperate, egotistical score keeping self more than hitting on more than one woman in the same social circle. When women portray their interest in you in return to yours, you might as well take a hike if you are thinking who will move things along a little faster and try hitting on one of her friends. Not only will you seem like a player, you will never be trusted again within her circle and the relationship will most likely not continue past a drink.
3. Tell her how hot she is
Ever wondered why sometimes you see a woman that is absolutely unbelievable only to turn around and be with the geekiest most unattractive guy in the place….there is a reason. Women tend to be with men that make them feel good about themselves, not all to be stereotypical, but it is common. If a man tells her how beautiful she is and how great she looks even in her housecoat and curlers, nothing spells success quicker for men when women feel like they are the most hottest female on earth to their man. Be careful though for the women that seeks not only constant attention but one that is looking for a feeder to her already massive ego.